We act as if that being of a man or that being of a woman is actually an internal reality or something that is simply true about us, a fact about us, but actually it's a phenomenon that is being produced all the time and reproduced all the time, so to say gender is performative is to say that nobody really is a gender from the start. -Judith Butler

if you're here then you probably have an interest in gender, the lack thereof, are 
on a gender journey yourself, know someone on a gender journey, or just have questions about gender....no matter, welcome to my gender wilderness!

i hope you find the following pages helpful, insightful, or at least useful. i don't claim to have all the answers or speak for every agender/gender non-binary/genderqueer/trans* person but i am always open to answer questions, point you to resources, or provide a safe place to share your story. 

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